a friend is now telling me I've been quiet this week, when for the past year...

they would ask how I was and then their response went back to them, they never followed up on what I had said. their boyfriend, house hunting, their wedding, their pregnant, their baby.

they got married and had a kid, so yes that changed things. It opened my eyes to realize that the relationship was one sided. I tried talking to them about it, and well, I got told you think this is easy for me? apparently being pregnant makes you allowed to ask for anything from your "friends" no matter what the cost to them, without a thank you.

am I wrong to get suspicious of their intent sometimes? when it is said visit her and the child (hubby going skiing and to see if I can do it the next day), watch him for a couple of hours(on my own), when you know that they will need a babysitter in the future. it has nothing to do with me.

all the broken promises, all the hurt, we use to be so close, and maybe I am jealous that she met someone, who became more important than me, and was house hunting on my birthday. because of this person, promises of coming over have changed. other plans are changed.



can anyone make sense with how I am feeling? Or am I the one who is wrong? Maybe I am just tired and overly sensitive.

sorry.