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Old Jan 24, 2014, 07:08 AM
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Originally Posted by skandia View Post
Thanks, I'll try relaxing and see how it goes. I do often feel tense, because I feel like I'm under pressure when someone else is there.

I'm scared my boyfriend finds out about what I watch, though, and thinks I'm totally weird... and I'd give it all up for him, but my desires would still be there.
It just sounds like classic anxiety to me. For what it's worth, my wife and I enjoy porn together. Maybe you could broach the subject with what he likes to see and then enjoy some together? You never know until you have a conversation over it.

Oh, and you're not weird. I'm weird. My idea of roleplaying is "I'm a paladin with 5d10+4 hit points and a vorpal sword." Yeah, that drives my wife nuts.