I get withdrawing from an argument, and avoiding saying anything maliciously out of anger. At the same time, he need not run away, each time you argue. That's some thing, he needs to resolve for himself. Chasing him down, to 'talk it out'? Is that to continue the argument, is that while still in a verbally combative tone of voice?

Why are things being said 'wrong', this often? How can trust be built in a relationship, when there is running away and chasing down to finish the argument? It's not about winning and losing. Why are there, this many 'fights'?