I live in wisconsin.... here is my advice to you..... CALL the cops on his ***. His abuse (verbal or physical) will require (by law) a visit by the cops. And (by state law) if the cops come to your house - then someone HAS to go to jail for the night.

Clearly he IS abusing you.

And if he spends a night (or several if he keeps being a butt hole) in jail - then either he will wake up and start acting human. Or you will have legal documentation of his actions. And he will never "get" the house in a divorce.

So perhaps it is he that should save that slot in the homeless shelter.