biiv.........me too.......i never, ever meant that those forums would be exclusive...........and i do not believe that i could have said anything to cause people to believe that.....if i did, i didn't mean to.

some wise poster even said that they were very supportive of the possibility of having the new forums as she felt she could learn from them........bravo for her! that's my aim.....

as for as having a male only and a female only.......i have female parts that i am not going to discuss with the men here. if they read what i write.....so be it......but i will not discuss personal physical issues with them.......what is the big deal about not being able to understand how simple this is??????????

Doc just got through explaining it on the male forum.......... and he is very clear about the two forums.........thanks, pat

p.s. i understand that sometimes it's just too difficult to not question everything.......AND then there is the time to lighten up and let it goooooooooooooooo. and it takes wisdom to know which place you're at.......