Hi Fayerody
I'm sorry if I offended you or angered you in anyway by my suggestion/comment....it was just an idea....nothing more......not intended to hurt anyone's feelings.
So...I guess DocJon has settled the issue of this particular thread.....men & women forums are separate and to bring other issues to the relationship forum.
Again......Fayerody & others.......I sincerely apologize if I have offended you in anyway.