First of all I am not a alcoholic. But i do occasionally drink. So his drinking is not a temptation to me. He never has drinking parties here and very seldom goes to a drinking party. He drinks when he goes to the bar when he plays in the band. He never drinks and drives. And we take turns to who is the designated driver. And he drinks mostly alone. I was with an alcoholic for over 16 years. "That was my ex husband.His drinking caused me to worry and he was mean when he drank.What can I say to help my boyfriend now to reflect to see if he has let alcohol control his life?
Cherbear