Cherbear, can you just have conversations with your boyfriend and tell him your concerns and discuss it? If alcohol doesn't affect one's life/relationships then it usually isn't a "problem." His drinking is bothering you though so you need to talk about that and see how you both can either decide he wants to drink less or you are better reassured or able to separate out your last relationship/boyfriend from this one.
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