I sometimes get like get out of my space with my husband, i feel terrible when i cant give him what he wants, but he doesn't mind he knows me well enough than to pull the moves on me when im doing not so good. He will just hug me tight instead and is very understanding, but i do feel bad for not being able to be there for him when he needs me, i am very needy and hate myself for it, but i just grew up neglected in a family of 13.