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Originally Posted by IzzyMeadows
...If you want someone to treat you like a woman you need someone who is interested in women. Gay men want you as a man. I would look into trans, bi, or even open straight men. Someone who loves you as a woman. Are you planning to have surgery?
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I would imagine that if a Bi man would feel like being with a woman, he would simply go after a woman. The problem with surgery (aside from the farce of it), is that despite all the technological innovations we have in the world today not even the best surgeons can replicate what the opposite sex has in terms of genitalia. I have yet to see a vaginoplasty that looks real enough for me to consider having one done. And that includes the ones done on high end porn stars. I mean, if anyone could afford the best, it'd be them. It's just not good enough. From what i understand, the process is even less realistic for women looking to be a 'man'. So looking to date a trans man would probably not be in my best interest. So as I said in my opening post, I am not open to surgery.
Maybe if I were to become feminized enough I would consider a boob job, but that wouldn't solve my problem downstairs (or the fact that it's fake). But even that endeavor is not without it's complications. Aside from the fact that hormone replacement therapy is rather risky (or so I've been informed), It is also very expensive.
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Originally Posted by IzzyMeadows
Biologically speaking yes you will never be a woman but what does that matter? You know the saying if it walks like a duck, sounds like a duck,and looks like a duck it is probably a duck.
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Probably, but not necessarily. To me, it matters. And to a lot of people, it matters.
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Originally Posted by IzzyMeadows
If you feel like a woman start treating yourself as a woman. What counts is what you want and think. If you have to look in a mirror and start telling yourself that you are a woman everyday. Eventually you will start to believe it.
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I very often already do feel like one, at least on the inside. But I have an entire body telling me I'm not. As far as demeanor goes, I think I throw a lot of people off. The social sub-culture I adhere to leaves a lot of room for mixed interpretation as to my femininity. I mean, there is no confusion as to my sexual orientation. However, as I said before; I don't go for the priss or diva look. I think most people write me off as 'that goth guy that looks like a chick'. There is a certain amount of androgyny that is normal within this particular culture. Yes, I do take it a bit further. However, despite my best efforts to have people treat me like a woman, everyone eventually reverts to treating me like a gay guy.