I'll get used to it...again. Is this typical, though? For family to insist you stay in touch with them, then punish you for admitting you're having issues?

What can I do??

They got mad when I pointed this pattern out. But it's happened before. When I'm telling them all is well, there "so proud of me", when I tell them I'm scared, don't know what's going on, it's:"go tell your shrink". Then--silence.