PS Lycanthrope - I do sympathize with the problem, though, and definitely would not want to be in your shoes so I am not trivializing the problem but rather saying that you have not solved it. The question about access to the Internet was meant to illustrate that outside of pure physical survival, people come to depend on things that they need for social survival, and the Internet is one such thing, so it is a need. Sexuality bridges physical and social (and many more), making it hard to even begin to think about it in terms of need or not a need, but that calling it a desire is trivializing is for sure.