I would be happy to wager money that she will not accept a gift like that and you may get a "lecture" and less close feelings in the future. When I was in 6th grade I behaved inappropriately toward my male teacher and got a conference between him and my mother and from then on never got called by my nickname but by my full name which had never been used to me before; talk about lonely and confused! Your therapist is there to help you with your therapy, not for you to love, she has her own choice of lovers.
I often got my T a card for Valentines Day, that was fun for me to try to find since it could not be about romantic love, gifts, etc. but had to relate to my therapy in some way. I found one funny card the first year that had a character on the front with their hands on their heart proclaiming, "You say you want to know just how I feel. . ." and then you open it up and it says, "I feel fine!"
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