Family isn't always the best support group.. In fact they can't really make things worse. I've disowned my family for that very reason. When I had a job and was successful they were comfortable with me.. Then when things went to ****.. They said I deserved it and shut the door on my face..
Don't feel bad about it. They don't deserve you..
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Originally Posted by nummy
I'll get used to it...again. Is this typical, though? For family to insist you stay in touch with them, then punish you for admitting you're having issues?
What can I do??
They got mad when I pointed this pattern out. But it's happened before. When I'm telling them all is well, there "so proud of me", when I tell them I'm scared, don't know what's going on, it's:"go tell your shrink". Then--silence.
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