I think that's a great question.

My T represents a lot to me. Very nice wording, what does he represent, not what he means to me (which is what I'd be tempted to talk about more).

To me, my T represents a caring, loving, warm, empathetic, supportive, and solution-focused attitude. The type that will listen and try to negotiate and find a solution and work together, as opposed to just making a decision because he can or argue because he feels like it. Also, a natural, flowing understanding and use of knowledge - the kind when knowledge can enrich a relationship rather than try to make it match the theory. He also represents joy to me - his joy at simple things like good weather or a gift I bring him and my joy at being there together. Perhaps the most important, to me he represents positive thinking, the idea that you can find a positive and an inner resource in anything if you look in the right direction. I guess, growth and relationship - that's what all these different aspects are saying.