I have explained to him and actually had a breakdown last weekend when we had no money that I cant keep doing this...I am so stressed out and he keeps telling me its all going to be ok but I see no forward motion being made. Hes angry because we don't have sex, and can't understand why I am stressed because as far as he is concerened its all going to be ok...I will stop stressing when things are taken care of...I will stop stressing when I know I am NOT going to loose my house...until then I cant go every day with a happy smile knowing I might not have a place to live come spring...
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Originally Posted by Rose3
Sounds like you have a lot on your mind. Hopefully you'll find the job(s) that will help financially. And hopefully your partner will find his job too. Does he maybe want closeness? Is it possible to explain to him that you have some current concerns that affect your ability to relax completely right now? Is it possible to try to plan for some things that the two of you might like to do together? Will the counselor be willing to meet with you and your partner, to assist with sorting things out?
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