ok, now I am just confused.

I told her she should leave me, said it was better for both of us. She won't. She says it takes time to get stable, that I have not gotten all the help I need to be better. Her support group says I need time to become stable and so she is going to give me 15 months.

I really don't know what to say. After everything I have done to this woman she should be flying out the door. Instead she is holding on to a destructive, violent relationship. I just... it kinda feels good that someone is willing to go though that but isn't this just going to get progressively worse?

I just don't know what to think anymore. I had the resolve to end it.... now... I just don't know...