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Originally Posted by bluegirl2004
I'm so sorry to hear this... I know well how you are suffering... This is my second time around with this sort of thing. The first was with a narcissist and the relationship ended after 3 years. He just walked away one day.
My question is why do we do this to ourselves and why can't we stop?
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the only answer I can even begin to give you now is I love him. I have ended mine. He is seeing this woman yet he still is texting me saying he loves me...calling me baby...hell he just gave me $13,000 which I put down on a new car. (this happened a week before it all blew up) I was planning to move to his area and we were planning our life. I have no idea what he was thinking. That is why I found this site. I am trying to figure out IF he is truly ill (bi polar) and I should be more understanding OR If he is just a bad guy. He said today he knows he has ruined everything and almost sounds remorseful yet was hurt that I broke up with him. I am not sure these men are capable of loving anyone. I think WE are women who love til the end. It is unselfish and detrimental to our mental health to allow these men to do this.