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Originally Posted by HazelGirl
It sounds like you have a great relationship with your T. I don't think she will pull away from you, especially if she is big on attachment theory. She will be glad that you are coming to see her as safe. I would also bet that it's okay to call her and tell her things you are proud of and want her to know. Heck, I texted my T this past week just to say hi. I didn't have a reason to do so, and she said it was an okay thing for me to do. So I don't think your T would mind if you told her anything you have told us here.
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She probably wouldn't...I mean, she wouldn't have given me her number if she didn't want me to use it (although I think she may or may not have specified when she gave it to me that the point was to use it for scheduling), and it's her job to tell me if she's feeling uncomfortable with something, not mine. I guess it's just that I know she's a really boundaried person in general so it feels like maybe I'm doing something I'm not supposed to do by calling for things outside of scheduling...I mean, she didn't explicitly tell me NOT to, but she didn't exactly say I could.