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Old Jan 27, 2014, 12:20 AM
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Originally Posted by emptyspace View Post
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Do you think it is important for a T to ask permission to touch a client before touching them.... even if it is a pat on the back, etc?

Personally, I don't want my T touching me. She sits on the other side of the room and if she moves closer, I move away.
If she ever touched me without acknowledging it, I would freak out.

Wow! That was strange when I saw this post.

I was (and still am) seeing this therapist. I have mentioned this before...but anyway...
My therapist slowly stroked my hangs while I was exchanging a pen. When I was giving him the pen back from signing a receipt. He slowly with all of his fingers wrapped around my hand passed the pen point and slowly caressed my hand and slowly taking the pen.

I went to seek out another therapist which I specifically was looking for a female. (..because I also feel my conversations are restricted by him because he is a male.)

When I told the woman therapist that I only saw once SHE WAS VERY RUDE.
When I told her that. " she replied and said, " he should of asked you first before touching you."
This guy touched me in a caressing sensual way!!!
She completely ignored the reality of it even making a statement saying..."well I know him." ...as in implying I was a liar. She sent me into a trigger panic attack...

I told him I told someone else...I think I more or less see him out of spite...he has denied doing this...when I confronted him. ..he played it off as,"oh what because I accidently touched your finger?"

I told him its pointless seeing him, how hes selfish and not a good counselor. ..and he ruined his therapy with me...

he doesn't seem to care nor even care his damage...he also showed how much he does not care for my health well being a treatment...for lying not me, even committing the act in the first place and apparently he would shove me under a bridge and burry me. Basically lie at the expense of my life because of what he did.

Interesting....thats why I am there for PTSD therapy. So apparently he does not care about anything I say or what anyone did to me.

He has touched me after that...putting his hand on my shoulder a couple of times as he passed me by as I was sitting in a chair and he went to get something or check who or if there was someone in the waiting room.

So I go back spitefully...and after that even flirting with him and rejecting him. I told him it has no value or doesn't mean anything that he writes down. I am sure he is writing incriminating things about me. Even twisting my word as he even does it to me in conversation.

Hes a real mind job...and people speak of him as hes this great loving person.