I find myself in a similar situation of "am I overthinking" these small changes and distance, or is my gut feeling just preparing me for the break up. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and we have a six month old baby. The past few weeks he has been distant and gets overly angry when I speak of my feelings. I am seeing my therapist for my codependency and when I share with him my progress and what I am dealing with, he seems frustrated that I just can't snap out of that way of thinking. Just yesterday he shared that he wants to be with me but the way I think he just can't do it. I have kept quiet of my feelings this past week and I just let him be. We live together but the past few days we haven't been talking and he tries to avoid me altogether. And with my codependent habits I am feeling really anxious and this situation is just consuming me. I am unsure of what is going to happen just like you, but just know you are not the only one and I wish you the best outcome.