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Originally Posted by missinformed
I have always taking an emotional tongue lashing from him when he is hurt. He always said that was all he had to hurt me with...was his words. I have been called a ****, a *****, (none of which are true), told by him he wished he could rip my heart out even though he has never raised a hand to me, called worthless and pathetic, fat, you name it. I found out recently he has had a relationship with another woman and I ended it with him. He seems to be manic and I just can't handle it all anymore.
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I don't think anyone should make excuses for that type of behavior. To many emphasize their abusive behavior on some sort of personality trait or disorder.
NO! Its simply abusive and should not be excused.
Personally I do not believe Bi polar is a disorder. ....but I am sure many will disagree with me...that is fine...
just saying what I think...
but on another note...to willfully mentally abuse someone is a choice and abuse, and it should not be considered something else.
...but NO it does not go under that of bi-polar disorder. Nothing that is mentioned in bi-polar has no relation to be verbally and mentally abusive.
If we were to go by the guidelines of what is called bi-polar disorder. As to say if I believed in it.
For someone to actually provoke fear to hurt someone....and if they get a release or thrill off of it...an adrenaline. It is very close more to sadistic.