I'm sorry I would react same as you. I would be so hurt....I'm confused why she thinks you're too intelligent or defended though. Why? I would want to know where this comes from and how she thinks psychodynamic would be different. And why short-term?

This would have to be sorted out for me because if my T came out and said he couldn't help me anymore (one of my biggest fears is my T not being able to or wanting to meet with me anymore - I constantly hint at it during sessions) I wouldn't be able to continue.