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Old Jan 27, 2014, 07:31 AM
Topiarysurvivor Topiarysurvivor is offline
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Originally Posted by Rivrboat View Post
I like your fantasy TopiarySurvivor about exT in post #7.

Especially the part where exT must respond to questions that reveal who he/she really is to everyone. And then they are finally embarrassed by their own actions. It isn't until then that the T has any concept of the magnitude of what they've done. It is only by suffering their own embarrassment that might cause them to wake up.
Yes! My current therapist asks me what I WANT to happen . She ( current therapist) said that some people have mediated sessions, but she wouldn't be able to do it because of her own sense of betrayal for the profession. So I started thinking- who woukd do it? My lawyer, but I don't want it in court because of my ex T's mom among other reasons.