Wow........SUCH a good topic.......I have yet to find a relationship that keeps me "satisfied" that way. I just get bored. In my last relationship we got a naughty game, and that was fun, but once we played it, we never played again. I just couldn't get in the mood most of the time, and ended up forcing it. I think what the clincher was in that relationship as that I just wan't "in" the relationship. And its a bummer, he's a great guy, but I just don't "feel" it.

Which is frustrating...because there's this OTHER guy who totally gets me going, just by looking at him, but I'm not emotionally attracted to him....no fair!!!!!!

I'd have to agree with the whole sponteneity thing though. It was at least of some help in my last relationship.

~Rayna