Hi winenot3, I can really relate to what you are going through. It's hard.
I told my T at the begining of the month that I felt I was dependent on him.
I'm glad I told him, it feels much better getting it out in the open. He was good about it.
It seems your T took it well too, I suppose they are trained to cope with these situations and help us.
I hope that with time we will both be able to work through these feelings with our Ts and come out happier, stronger people.
Thinking of you.. feel free to pm me if you need a friend to talk to.