Can't ask the blokes as it's forbidden to go on their side, so just some input from the ladies? Maybe it's my own mind right now, but I feel ugly, externally. Internally, I think I am discovering something tremendous. I think I would feel flattered if men glanced my way (even though I am married) but I don't think it ever happens. To be honest, I don't pay much attention to them (men) anymore. This post is just a vent mostly, and a request for opinions from other people. I'm not naive, I know people find all sorts of looks 'attractive', hmm, maybe a better secondary question: Is it normal to feel ugly and ignored when you are going through a relationship crisis? This seems so superficial and I am almost ashamed to post this, but maybe if I release this; excise it from my reality, then I can move on and concentrate more fully on the good things that I feel within despite my situation.