"To be honest, I don't pay much attention to them (men) anymore."

This is probably why. You aren't putting out any vibes. I took a workshop on finding a man taught by a man. Sounds corny and superficial but he had some good advice. One was wearing shapely clothes no matter what size you are. Not necessarily the tight kind unless that's your style. Just not anything that hides that you are female.

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