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Old Jan 27, 2014, 01:51 PM
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Originally Posted by stopdog View Post
I consider the act of walking into the woman's office a sign of vulnerability. The equivalent of rolling over and exposing your neck and belly.
Exactly. For me, this is why I show up consistently, it is like making a commitment to vulnerability. It also feels like exercise, the more I exercise my vulnerability, the more easily I can do it.

What's changed for me around this is not the way I see it, but it feels much more okay to be vulnerable and undefended (or less defended). Kind of freeing and safe in a paradoxical way.