Hi
My husband and I have been married almost 7 months. We dated several years before that and were both virgins when we married each other. A couple months before our wedding, my husband's mother passed away to whom he was extremely close. Although his grief symptoms appear to have gotten some better (ie he has maybe one 20-30 minute sad spell a week versus all day every day as it was in the beginning). Anyways, my husband always talks about how great his mother is (and she was a wonderful person) and how she's the best at everything. Even when he's cried and talked about how sad his life is, ( he says these things when he's having a sad spell, otherwise he's peppy acting), he still wants to be intimate with me that night. He and I are living with his father until our house is finished, so that doesn't leave us much alone time until we go to bed. So my question is this; why does my husband want to be intimate even while he's grieving over his mother who he says is the "best person he's ever known?" Seems like he wouldn't feel like it. Trust me, I'm not complaining at all! I'm just curious about this. Thanks