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Old Jan 27, 2014, 04:12 PM
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Originally Posted by HazelGirl View Post
Ultimately, YOU are in charge of treatment decisions. Not her. She may feel inexperienced (maybe she's new?), and not educated enough to handle your case. That sounds like what is going on to me.
She is about 40 years-old (I'm 32) and she graduated about 10 years ago from her Ph.D. One of the reasons I chose her is that she has a lot experience training interns, and is in charge of training psychology postdoctoral fellows and psychiatry residents at a "fancy" medical school.

I know that lots of letters after someone's name doesn't make someone more competent, but I wanted her to have experience and a solid academic background.

I will very politely/respectfully ask if there is something about me (that is not my fault) that makes her uncomfortable/feel ineffective. Aka are there countertransference issues/do I trigger any of her schemas? She tends to be quite good about not getting defensive so perhaps there is something there.
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