God, I hear ya. I havent been able to have sex for almost 2 weeks now. I am finding it very difficult! I have been trying to help out my partner as I enjoy that, but he isnt all that interested because he doesnt want to get too wound up and not be able to have sex. So frustrating!!

Sucks that you cant even relieve yourself, thats a bit harsh. Some women can go way longer than guys without some kind of release (I am certainly not one of them) and I do not think it is fair to ask a man to stop masturbation just because she cant. Sounds really immature.

Why cause issues in a relationship? This just seems to be asking for drama and frustration on both sides.