Society pressures us to do things that we sometimes do not wish to do. And often, we don't even realize that we don't want it until it's too late. I don't like to let society dictate that I must provide a child for my partner if he is an only child (and he is) simply to carry on a name and bloodline. That said, children have never been and will likely not be something that either myself or my partner are interested in. But, you do need to make the choice for yourself. Don't feel pressured by society. Take others' opinions into account, but they need not be the final decision-maker.

If you truly love this man, and he truly loves you and you both truly wish to have your own biological children, sit down and have a serious discussion about it. First, talk about it on your own and try not to let emotions cloud the discussion. There are certainly risks that your genetics will pose, but those are challenges that you and your potential future partner will face; not his mother. Not to mention that those with schizophrenia can live productive and happy lives. I have an aunt who is schizophrenic and she is married to a kind and loving man, working as a personal support worker. She grew up in a large family during a time when many individuals affected with mental health concerns were pushed aside, misdiagnosed and left to fend for themselves, but she is thriving today. It sounds as though you and your potential partner are conscientious enough to provide a caring environment and are knowledgeable enough about mental health that any future offspring would be in a good position for support.