Thanks to all who responded! I want to help others, but sometimes feel like the blind leading the blind. I was curious to know if anyone else was having trouble trying to "define" what it really means. You're right. It IS subjective . To each his own. Who is ANYONE to set our standards for us? Yes, we need some checks & balances. Law & order, but to pin all these LABLES on our heads......this one's crazy, that one's OCD, that whole group is bipolar..... It's one thing to know your condition so that you can take care of it. But, we should NOT have to be IDENTIFIED by our conditions & made to feel any less important than anyone else. IT'S OK NOT TO BE NORMAL if you ask me. As long as you are comfortable, content, & at peace within your own flesh, it shouldn't matter if you "fit in" with the status quo. Thanks again for listening.