My father in law's birthday was last week and my husband's family always gets together for cake and ice cream and to take pictures. This year, my husband's mother was not there because she passed away 9 months ago, and his sister wasn't there due to sickness so I took most of the pictures. I took pics of my husband and his father, and my FIL with his grandchildren and son in law. I figured at some point my husband would have someone take a pic of me, him and my father in law or me and my husband like we've done at everyone's birthday in the past. I admit, my feelings were hurt when the night ended and I wasn't in any pictures. I didn't want to say anything to my husband because I know he and his father were focused on my mother in law not being there. Should I have been hurt by me not being in any of the pictures this year? I guess what bothers me too is that last week, was mine and my husband's 3 year anniversary of our first date. My FIL went with us because we went to celebrate right after church and he rides to church with us. My husband got a picture of me and him and then asked me to take a picture of him and my FIL. I thought about that when I didn't get into any picture at birthday party.