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Originally Posted by Gingersnapsmom
Wow. So sorry! To be honest, I am usually the friend that "goes away." The reason is because I split and start devaluing the person I thought was completely perfect and all I can think about is getting them out of my life. It's that black and white thing. I am very hard to deal with even though I am very, very generous with everything...time, money, listening....I eventually can't take it anymore and feel the other person is giving me nothing in return and I am outta there.
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Yes! I usually am too but for some reason i couldn't be with him. If that's the case I would have stopped talking to him three years ago just with the off and on online stuff lol. I almost deleted him a few months ago, i don't remember why that was now and I thought of deleting him from all social networks now. I can't and i don't know why, I did delete him from my phone. For some reason i can never bring myself to be mad at or completely dismiss him and that is really rare for me. Even though right now I feel like I have been thoroughly gaslighted lol.