We are. But we're guys so we have to put up a front and be macho. Especially when there are other guys around, cause the pressure is always on to 'be a man' and not acknowledge our insecurities let alone let them show. In a way, we're way more uncomfortable than you, because we're not even allowed to express our discomfort. As we get older, this gets worse before it gets better. That's why bars exist.