Alright, the divorce has been filed and a summons will go out in a couple of weeks. I am going to talk to him Thursday night when the kids aren't around (they're going out to dinner with my sister). He will have until the end of the weekend to talk to the kids and say his good byes. He will have to move out by the end of Sunday. He will have until the end of February to get all of his belongings out of the house. As I clean up, I will be boxing up his belongings as I come across them and will store them all in one room so that when he comes to get his stuff he just has to go up and get a box and get out. I have changed the password on my banking and will be getting a new debit card tomorrow. The locks will be changed on Monday. The kids already have a therapist and I will be making appointments for the next couple of weeks. I have an appointment to get tested for everything under the sun. The attorney has print outs of the incriminating e-mails. Everything is in order, and I will have the house in decent order by the end of Friday, hopefully Thursday.