ok from a mans point of veiw, what do you do when the loving runs cold, and by that i mean when you want something to happen sexually and it doesnt, when you ask for something to happen and she says no, where are we expected to go from there? whats the protocol? are we to blame?, are we classed as perverted? what do we do to try and get back on track if anything, or should we carry on regardless?

i would be happy to hear k8immydawns full point of veiw, not the edited version she has posted, sorry kimmy i never saw your original post so didnt get chance to react.in time

edited by myself to add

i prefer the woman to be in charge sexually, i do my best to keep up, repeatedly, but when do you say enough is enough? without sounding like a wimp?