Maybe I felt like she wasn't really being fair to me and then I got defensive...because I AM fine on my own; I have other supports and I don't NEED her; I just wanted to call her and leave a message to share something with her, which is a pretty normal(?) thing to want to do with someone you trust who has seen you through this journey. I've been making A LOT of progress on my own recently, so maybe I felt like she was sort of discounting that by telling me (although she didn't really tell me this; just my interpretation) that what I was doing was STILL overstepping, no matter how much progress I've already made.