I'm frustrated for you. The more I read about people's experiences with Ts the more I think the whole thing is crazy making.
On one hand, Ts are all 'I'm here for you! Trust me! Love me like a parent! If you don't, you're resistant and defensive!' And then on the other hand, you'd better not get too comfortable with email, texts, or calls or you get your wrist slapped and treated like an annoyance.
The fact that there are attachment issues mixed into all of this makes it so much worse. I can't believe many of us pay to get treated this way, especially when we are at our most vulnerable.
Sorry for fueling the fire, but I had a bad session this week and getting tired of the roller coaster.