It wasn't even so much that she was telling me what was good for me as that she wanted me to talk about my reaction to her boundaries, which is fine, but first I wanted her to clarify exactly what those boundaries were, and she didn't want to play it like that. She was like, "I've been really clear with you re. boundaries," which obviously isn't all that true considering she then broke her own boundaries several times within the past couple of months and said that's fine once in awhile but just use my judgement...which isn't good enough for me.