Well, the need to forgive him, for this, is debatable. How long ago, did your divorce, finalize?

Pattern, with women? Ten years, is a fair amount of time spent in a marriage, was this his second or third marriage?

Was it rosey, for you, for ten years? I ask, as you mention, having blinders on, for all these years...

It is, painful, to have the rug pulled out from under. Didn't you guys argue or anything, to that nature, to clue you into his just walking away, out of the blue?

Were you able to get some alimony, out of this?