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i guess this has become the catch all thread for everyone disclosing about their sexual issues...

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Yes, and that is the intention of this forum.

I think we're still on topic here, discussing why the "heat" goes out of relationships. The current discussion is definetly another reason for that.

You're right about needing to identify what one wants FIRST. I've really been working on that. I know what I want in a relationship, now I just have to find the one that "fits" so that I can be happy, and in turn, give back to the relationship.