Quote:
Originally Posted by Hopelessly Hopeful
I think you are better off moving on.  It is obvious he is doing more conflict than clarity and more harm than good.
May I ask why the decision is so difficult? Just based on reading the list, I feel like you know what the right thing to do is and what you want. Is there something specific keeping you with him? |
I don't know why it is so difficult actually... I guess some reasons are as follows:
1) I cannot get any different T for next half a year (this another T said that she could see me 1-3 times but she won't have the capacity to take any new client before the summer)
2) He's the only T who I could see twice a week as others are not reimbursed by my insurance and I couldn't afford seeing them so often. As I struggle with time between sessions, I would prefer have them as often as possible
3) He's the only male T who I could see - others are females, and actually I have no idea why I think that I prefer male
4) As we have sessions twice a week, I've manage to tell him already a lot so I would have to repeat so many things to a new T - it's almost like a waste of time... And I think that I won't be able to be open so much with another T, if I change a T it will be a kind of failure I guess...
5) I like him - when he's not annoying, he's pretty nice