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Originally Posted by anilam
I don't understand why you feel the need to read this to the new T... you can change Ts just because- you don't need to have a valid reason (many of those are BTW)/ the new T's approval.
Do you need the new T to say it's OK to leave that T?
Do you feel you can't/shouldn't otherwise?
Plus I read a lot of what he/you did and not much how you felt- maybe it'd be more beneficial to discuss that? Just discuss, no need to read a letter?
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Yes, I think I would like the new T to tell me if I have a reason to leave my T or not. In addition, as I am not sure if it is weird for Ts to say/do things like my T says/does, I would like to know if my potential new T would behave the same or if she thinks that it was not appropriate and would choose a different way... Because maybe I'll change T to a new T who will use the same approach? I think that if new T says that I should stay with my current T, I will do that... It would be great if she could tell me what to do but I guess it doesn't work like that...
How do I feel? I guess that's the most tricky question as usually I try not to feel but to think... Thus, e.g. my T can annoy me so I'm angry but than I start thinking why I am angry and of course there are hundreds of possibilities
