I know it is the purpose of this forum.
Though of course it is more that it is PART or ONE of the purposes of the forum (lets not forget all the transgendered folk out there).

I thought threads were meant to be about supporting the person who initiates the thread...

But no matter. What do I care? Not a whole heap if it wasn't for this double standard kind of thing where some people get lots of these:



(if there is anything that could result in my actually smashing my computer it is that %#@&#! icon)

(and gee of course wouldn't it be funny to respond to me with some of those right now??? hehehe)

I guess I thought the topic was more why the heat has gone out of this particular relationship. There are many reasons, I guess... I guess I thought the poster wanted to know about their relationship rather than other peoples (where others may well be for different reasons)