Someone,
I am so sorry you are going through a difficult time. From what you write, it sounds like your therapist is so wrapped up in his own issues that he can't see or doesn't want to see yours. I hope you can believe in yourself and in how you feel. It seems your therapist is invalidating of your experience and emotions. I would definitely tell the consult T everything you have written so she will have a good idea of what is going on. Please keep us posted.