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Originally Posted by Rose76
It's great that you figured out how to resolve the photo problem. Now look at the bigger problem that is represented here. You are wanting a lot of reassurance from others that you are wanted by them. Think about where that is coming from. Deep down this is not about the photographs.
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You are right, Rose76. I have felt like I've needed more reassurance from my husband since his mom passed over nine months ago. Since her passing, he has been very focused on her and always talked about how great she is (she was a wonderful person). He still treats me good and pays attention to me, and tells me I'm a wonderful wife, but he has been extra focused on his mother and also on his father who is still living. Since our marriage 7 months ago, we have had very little alone time except when we go to bed because we are living with his father until our house is finished. Even after the house is finished my husband wants to visit his father every day. So, I guess I am feeling a little neglected. I've talked with my husband about this but he just says I don't understand what he is going through. So I guess I'm being more nit-picky these days over small stuff--hence the post about the photographs. Thanks so much for you advice