the thing that is annoying that is that some of these friends will tell me that by me talking to people I used to sexually involved with it will make it possible that these people will think I want to have something with them sexual again.

Because I have a sex addicition, and because of my Histronic Personality Disorder, and BPD I can come off very flirty toward other people and I don't even realize it and even if I am not really cheating on my BF my friends are trying to show me that, that does not mean everyone in my life is going to be respectful of that I am not going to go that extra mile....

and my flirtations could be possibly send mixed signals and they want me to be aware of that just so that I don't end up hurting myself my BF or my friends.

But sometimes how they give off this message where as it is a good message to give, they can be fairly blunt and it can hurt a bit to hear it sometimes.

But I try to remind myself they do it cause they do care.